The Backwards Law: why clinging doesn’t work
The more we pursue trying to feel better all the time, the more we are going to reinforce this idea that we are fundamentally lacking and irreparable.
I’m lost but I’m hopeful, baby
Alanis Morissette was like me. A restless, Canadian, long-messy-haired, no-makeup, baggy-t-shirt-wearing chick.
How to stop comparative suffering
Empathy is not a finite resource. Compassion doesn’t run out because you spend it on someone else.
Let me address all your excuses for not doing yoga
We have lots of excuses that come from ego and fear and that mean voice in our head that says we’re going to look stupid and fail — so better not try.
Grief: when loss takes your breath away
In the middle of my grief, I found a chewy center of joy - memories of the tiny acts of love that live on forever.
Writing without worrying: the burn bowl
We have the right to scribble things that are dramatic and extreme and maybe downright untrue, in the course of trying to process difficult emotions.
No. Stop. Breathe.
All I needed was right there, I had just forgotten that it was accessible.
Nutrition and mood: the 80% rule
If 80% of the time I am eating in a way that I know helps my body and mind work optimally: awesome. The other 20% of the time is reserved for pecan pie.
Chronic pain and gratitude: the story of my broken back
Taking care of my body has a senses of sacredness and reverence. Because every October I am reminded that this is the only body I get, and that everything can change in a heartbeat.
Too busy? Here’s how to reframe your time
You are worthy, regardless of what you accomplish today.
Monkey Mind on Fire
Eventually, Sam unmuted himself and said, “yeah well, I definitely feel like my mind is a monkey who is swinging from branch to branch - but these days, that monkey is also upside down and on fire.”
Sober October for mental wellness
Sobriety means you’re a total rebellious badass who doesn’t need a drink to be fun.
Why writing works
We are controlled by what we cannot articulate. In the moment when we put pen to paper and declare what is real and true - we set ourselves free.
AFGO. Another Fucking Growth Opportunity
Roadblocks are going to happen, but maybe we can reframe them. Because sometimes what you wanted, isn’t what you needed.
How to support someone who has anxiety
It's not easy to love someone with anxiety. Here are six ways you can support us without needing to fix anything.
Bloop: on vulnerability and frozen yogurt
As Ernest Hemingway once said, “There's nothing to writing. All you do is sit down at a typewriter and open a vein.”
3 ways to deal with depression right now
Here’s the good news: you are not alone if you are struggling with depression, and more people than ever are reaching out for help.
There is no guidebook on How to be a Person
Life was hard for me, and I was convinced that life was easy for them. They were doing it right. I was doing it wrong.
The Gold Buddha
Shining is your birthright. That’s what I learned when I was lucky enough to travel to Thailand for my 40th birthday, and I got to see the giant Golden Buddhas.